[PATCH] test: update tests for OpenSSL 3.0.14

[PATCH] test: update tests for OpenSSL 3.0.14

Starting from OpenSSL 3.0.14, 3.1.6, 3.2.2, and 3.3.1, OpenSSL was fixed
to return an error reason string for bad/unknown application protocols.

Update tests to handle both the old `ECONNRESET` error on older versions
of OpenSSL and the new `ERR_SSL_TLSV1_ALERT_NO_APPLICATION_PROTOCOL` on
newer versions of OpenSSL.

Refs: https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/24338
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/53373
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <midawson@redhat.com>
Gbp-Pq: Topic build
Gbp-Pq: Name openssl-3.2.2-tests.patch